When becoming new to the scene world, there will be people who envy you. These people are called haters. Haters will tell you your a so called 'poser' a 'lier' and a 'fake'. Normally, you would want to get back at them. But dont. You want to uphold you 'good' image. Just ignore them. They will probably keep telling you the same things, but it doesn't matter. You could say something back to them, but just remember when to stop. You can't feel bad about this, there is no point. You need to keep a balance between not saying anything and responding badly.
What to do if someone askes you if your scene.
If someone askes you if your scene, or mistakes you for emo, just ignore them. If they persist, simply tell them that 'Lables are for cans' If they persist, just tell them to think what they think and to stop bugging you. If they wont stop, tell somebody about it.